The beginners’ guide to safely using butt-plugs for worry-free anal sex

It’s Anal August, baby. How exciting is that? If you are not that excited yet, or you simply never experienced butt plug play, there’s no need to worry. Our beginners’ guide will help you through. Let us hear you say yay, to booty play. 

For people interested in exploring anal play, whether it’s anal foreplay, anal sex, or anything in between or beyond, butt plugs are some of the best beginner toys to help you get familiar with your bum. They are suitable for all curious adults. Some people use plugs before having penetrative anal sex with a partner or just to spice up their solo sex life, but they are also a great way to experience anal adventures when anal sex is simply too much. 

Why people like using butt plugs
Butt plugs are awesome for a bunch of reasons. They are satisfying instruments for people with a penis, since the toys can stimulate the prostate, also known as the male G-spot or the P-spot. But the truth is that everyone can enjoy a little (or a lot of) butt action, since everyone has a butt. The anus is a huge area of pleasurable possibilities. The anal opening is, namely, clustered with nerves, making any play with butt plugs very enjoyable.

How to start with anal play

New to the butt plug game? If you have decided that it’s time to dip your toe in the waters of behind action, there are some things to consider. You might want to use the bathroom beforehand. There is always the chance of an accident, which is nothing to be ashamed about, but extra space for the butt plug never comes unhandy.

First off, you have to get to know your behind. You can do this by playing around with your fingers a bit. Once you are a little more relaxed, you lube up the butt plug and try to find a position that works for you when inserting it. Lube is important with anal play - since the ass doesn’t naturally lubricate itself - and it’s also your best friend in reducing the risk of pain. Learn more about lubricants in our blog called “Lube is lit”.  

Go time

Alright, so you’re ready to get hot and heavy. What now? First of all, foreplay is extremely important. Making sure you are nice and aroused will help you relax and being relaxed will make penetration more comfortable. When you start using the butt plug, go slowly and listen to your body since it knows what’s best. Does it hurt? Abort mission. The experience could be a bit uncomfortable at first, but pain is your body’s way of telling you something is wrong. Never push through it.

Move slowly at first and, if it feels comfortable, you can speed up. After a while, gradually trying more can also be done by using bigger plugs. Use being able to try different sizes to your advantage and find the right proportions for your body and preferences. The rule is to start small and to take your time to get familiar with each size. Good things take time, so little steps are recommended.

Eyes on the prize (and size)

Butt plugs come in many shapes, styles and materials, which makes shopping for one both exciting and overwhelming. If you’re interested in the feeling that a butt plug can provide in order to spice up your sex life, take a look at our curated selection. We got body-safe plugs for whatever occasion or sensation you’re looking for. From pickles, strawberries and pears - vitamins all day - to butt plugs that are custom made by our super sellers based on your steamy desires. 

Take your time and don’t be afraid to slow things down or to take a break. The world of anal amusement is the perfect playground for everyone interested, as long as you keep the action body-safe. It’s okay to be curious.