10 reasons why it's hot and helpfull to use sex toys as a single person

There are lots of reasons why using sex toys when you're single is hot. First, you get to be selfish and only worry about your Pleasure. You can experiment with different kinds of stimulation and find out what gets you off without worrying about pleasing someone else. 

Plus, there's no judgement if you want to bring out the kinkier side of your sexuality – it's all for you! And let's not forget the most obvious reason: orgasms. So go ahead and give yourself some love – your body will thank you for it!

1. It's all about you
When you're not worrying about pleasing someone else, you can focus all your attention on your Pleasure. And with so many amazing, unique, and even handmade and custom sex toys designed to give you optimum satisfaction, why wouldn't you want to take advantage?

2. Experiment without judgment
If you've ever wanted to try something new in the bedroom but felt too shy or self-conscious to bring it up with a partner, being single is the perfect time to experiment. With no one else around, you can let your freak flag fly and explore whatever turns you on - without judgment or expectation.


3. Take your time
Have you ever felt bad for not reaching orgasm fast enough while with someone? Is the person in your bed already orally busy for a solid 15 minutes but no big O? Let's get one thing straight, the goal of sex doesn't have to be reaching an orgasm. But some people feel guilty because they think it takes too long to orgasm. 

So one of the best things about being single and bringing sex toys into the bedroom is that you don't have to rush anything. Instead, you can take as much time as you want to find the perfect toy for your needs, explore different techniques, and spend as long as you like experimenting in search of mind-blowing orgasms.

Tip from us: listen to a sexy story to prolong your solo-session. Try out DipSea, Quinn or Cheex. 


4. Greater body awareness
When you masturbate with a toy, you get to know your body differently. You learn what kinds of touch feel good, where your most sensitive spots are, and how to reach orgasm. All of this knowledge can be used to enhance your sex life when you do have a partner.

In addition, exploring your body with sex toys can help reduce stress and increase feelings of Pleasure and satisfaction. So go ahead and give yourself the gift of masturbation! You'll be glad you did.


5. Increased orgasmic Pleasure
When you're single, you have the freedom to explore your sexual desires without having to worry about pleasing another person. So this is the perfect time to experiment with different sex toys and find out what gets you off.

There's no shame in using sex toys, and there's no reason why being single should stop you from enjoying your sexuality. In fact, using sex toys can help you learn more about your own body and what feels good, which can be beneficial when you eventually find a partner.

So if you're feeling adventurous, why not give some sex toys a try? You might find that they make solo sex even hotter than it already was!


6. Creative solo sex encounters
Regarding sex, most people believe that couples have all the fun. But what about those of us who are flying solo? Just because we don't have a partner doesn't mean we can't enjoy sexual experiences.

Solo sex can be even hotter than sex with a partner. Why? Because you get to call all the shots! You get to decide what feels good, what gets you off, and how long you want to play for. There's no need to worry about pleasing anyone but yourself - and that's incredibly freeing.

Not sure where to start? Porn, especially ethical porn, can always serve as an inspirational source. So here are some sites to visit when you feel like you need visual sexual inspiration; check out sssh.com.

The possibilities are endless when exploring solo sex, so get started! You might just find that it's the hottest experience of your life.


7. Low Risk and Safe Sex Practices
Not only do body-safe sex toys come with the benefit of zero to no risk of STDs when used by yourself and only you, but they also come with the bonus of requiring no protection against unwanted pregnancies. 

Want to learn how to clean your body-safe toys? Then read our blog that walks you through the steps!


8. Improved Relationship with Yourself and Your Body
Using sex toys when you're single can help you develop a better relationship with your body. Many people feel insecure about their bodies, but when you learn to love and appreciate your body by exploring it with sex toys, you can develop a healthier relationship with yourself. 

Increasing your self-esteem is a gift you can only give yourself. 

Self-love is always in season. 


9) Expanded Sex Education Knowledge
When it comes to sex, knowledge is power. And if you're single and looking to add a little spice to your bedroom play, then learning about sex toys is a great way to start.

Not only can using sex toys help you have more fun and get more out of your solo play, but it can also teach you much about your own body and desires. By exploring different types of toys and experimenting with different ways to use them, you can learn a lot about what gets you off and what doesn't.

Your future partner(s) will be amazed by your self-awareness. How hot do you think people who know what they like and can communicate about this? 

Ready to learn even more about sex and Pleasure? Try the app called Kama. 


10. More Variety and Fun!
There are so many different types of sex toys available nowadays that there's definitely something for everyone. Just as in a relationship, you can also spice up your relationship with yourself by experimenting with different toys. A different shape or size already adds more variety to your sex life. Go for it! 


Single and using sex toys? 
It is clear that using sex toys when single can be a great and pleasurable experience. With this in mind, there are plenty of reasons and benefits why you should consider introducing yourself to the world of sex toys while being single.

Feel free to explore different types of adult products and try out new things –
Solo playtime is as fun as you make it! 

 Read more about how to pick the best fantasy sex toy.

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